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Poor Beauty Behind the most attrctive avatars are hidden the most unhappy humans. I can't be convinced absolutelly but I meet interesting regularities in my life. When I say "avatars" I mean not only the virtual space. We all create such "avatars" in the real life and it reflects how others see us. In other words we create a certain appearance with many instruments (from gestures to cloth) which then we use as our "label". And we recognise people with the help of the such "labels", because we haven't ehough information about their. But in some causes "labels" become the single reality for people. How many times in your life you got rejections from people who was pretty or extremelly attractive? It's a normal to get rejection from other people. Every person has own lifes' views and everyone has right to choose companions. Everyone dosen't like you but you needn't it. But in case with an utterly attractive person the dramatically important thing underlies their behaviour. They refuse not because they don't like you, but because you can lower their social status. All things which is not support or increase their social status are denied automatically. So, in such case you communicate not with person, but with his or her fears and doubts.Attractive people who create a great distance between their own person and other world try to defense shaky balance of own psyche. Beauty, high self-evaluation (sometimes even selfishness) and indifference are the only tools for the psychic stability. When you communicate with such people you should rememder it because these persons can be more vulnerable than you imagine. Confident and healthy people don't build the social "fenсe", because they don't see dangers in every person.

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Poor Beauty

Behind the most attractive avatars are hidden the most unhappy humans. I can't be absolutely certain but I meet interesting regularities in my life. When I say "avatars" I mean not only the virtual space. We all create such "avatars" in real life and this reflects how others see us. In other words, we create a certain appearance by many instruments (from gestures to clothes) which then become our "label". And we recognise people with the help of the such "labels", because we lack information about them. But in some cases "labels" become the single reality for people.

How many times in your life were you rejected by someone who was pretty or extremely attractive? It's normal to get rejection from other people. Everyone has their own life view and the right to choose their companions. Everyone doesn't like you but you don't need them to. But in the case of an utterly attractive person a dramatically important thing underlies their behaviour. They refuse you not because they don't like you, but because you can lower their social status. All things which do not support or increase their social status are denied automatically.

So, in such a case you communicate not with the person, but with their fears and doubts. Attractive people who create a great distance between their own person and the outside world try to maintain a shaky balance of their own psyche. Beauty, high self-esteem (sometimes even selfishness) and indifference are the only tools for their psychic stability. Talking to such people you should remember this because these persons can be more vulnerable than you imagine. Confident and healthy people don't build this social "fenсe", because they don't see dangers in every person.

Very well written!

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