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My challenge .. Day 2: Keep your goals for yourself? Hi guys! Today I want to write about a TED talk "Keep your goals for yourself" by Derek Sivers. Derek asked us to think about our biggest goal. We should imagine that we tell it someone, that we get congratulations and so on. But… it is not the best way to achieve our goal. Psychology studies figured out when people tell their goals it makes less likely to happen. In the test around 160 people should wrote their goals. Then a half of them announced their goal, the other half didn’t. After then everybody got 45 minutes to do something for their goal. The half, that shut up their mouth worked all 45 minutes. They said, they had a feeling of a long way to achieve the goal. The other group stopped their work after 33 minutes in average. Their feeling was that their goals were closer. Psychologists call this “social reality”. Our minds give us the feeling that the work is already done. When we feel satisfaction, we are less motivated to do the hard work. Derek told us, if we want to tell our goal to someone, then it is better to say it with a measure and maybe with asking for help. I think, it depends on … I have better experiences when I tell someone from my challenges and goals. It helps me to do it, it motivates me. My experiences are also that I get helpful ideas for the realization. Thank you to help me to achieve my challenge here.

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My challenge .. Day 2: Keep your goals for to yourself?

Hmm, in Amerika sagt man: to yourself. Vielleicht "for yourself" is möglich in Großbritannien.

Hi guys! Today I want to write about a TED talk "Keep your goals for yourself" by Derek Sivers.

Derek asked us to think about our biggest goal. We should imagine that we are telling it to someone and that we get eventually receive congratulations and so on for achieving our goal.

But… it telling someone our goal is not the best way to achieve it our goal. Psychology Psychological studies figured out have determined when people tell someone their goal it makes is less likely to happen.
In the test, around 160 people should wrote were supposed to write down their goal. Then a half of them announced revealed their goal, the other half didn’t.
After then that everybody got had 45 minutes to do something for to achieve their goal. The half, that shut up their mouth kept silent, worked all 45 minutes. They said, they had a feeling of a long way to achieving the goal was a long way off.

The other group stopped their working after 33 minutes in on average. Their feeling was that their goal were was closer to achievement.

Sei bitte vorsichtig, du sprichst zuerst von einem Ziel, dann sprichst du im nächsten Satz von Zielen. 

Psychologists call this “social reality”. Our minds give us the feeling that the work is already done. When we feel satisfaction, we are less motivated to do the hard work.

Derek told us, if we want to tell our goal to someone, then it is better to say tell it with a measure of doubt and maybe with asking ask for help.

I think it depends on … I have better experiences results when I tell someone from my challenges and goals. It helps me to do it, it motivates me, My experiences are also that I get helpful ideas for the realization how to achieve the goal.
Thank you to for helping me to achieve my challenge here.

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Here is the TED talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/derek_sivers_keep_your_goals_to_yourself#t-176767

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