I feel blue

I think I have met the most narrow-minded boy in my life, unlucky, he is my colleague.

He always said if anyone has difficults in computer operation, please feel free to ask him for help. But when I turned to him for help,he was so impatient. He seemed not listen to me, because I had to repeat what I said again and again to let him know what I want.

May be during this period, I spoke aloud, I sweared I didn't suppose to do it. I just wanted to slove the problem as soon as possible, then he suddently shouted towards to me. ( I finally know that he did it because he thought I order him ) At that time,I couldn't stand it, why he angry with me ? So I refuse to admit being inferior, also yelled "Why you shout towards to me, I do nothing wrong" Then, he said "ok, you don't ask me for help from now on, at the same time , I will not ask you for help in the future"

I feel hurt when I heard this sentence, I didn't make some important mistakes, why you say that ? It is only a communication queation. Furthermore, we are colleagues, we should cooperated with each other to work better, you are not the one who can decide not work together with me. When I ask you for help, it is for work, not private factor, and we are equal, I am not begging for your help.

When you thought I ordered you, and you felt uncomfortable, why you didn't speak it out ? You chose the wrong expression, how can I know your real ideas ?