I want you to accept me for who I am - Discussing homesexuality Recently I heard this sentence from the man who is gay. I saw it on you tube, quite by chance. And it made me thinking. First it is paradoxical. You can't ask someone else to do what you don't do yourself. At least, not in right logic. Although people do that all the time. If the guy from you tube didn't accept himself as he is, born as a man, why he asks from audience to accept him? The other thing that revolves around homosexuality is why the gay men think that being a woman means being a sexually attractive woman. It seems to me they imitate some specific type of woman that is too much feminine. Women are different. They can be ugly, aggressive, not gentle, strong, leaders etc. So why they pick up always the same type of woman they imitate . It is still the man mind and brain that tells them what to imitate. It is common prejudice that women are tidy and gentle. Common men's prejudice. Women know who they are. They don't need to act as "that specific woman" they are free in their being a woman. So it turns up that gay men do not accept the other notion of woman but that feminine one and sexually objectified woman. Consequently they don't accept other people for who they are. They have labels too. "woman that means feminine" . That is prevalent men's opinion. So in the gay guy's head there is still masculine brain telling him what is the woman. You can't escape from who you are, the other's approval is irrelevant. But if you long for other's approval it could be that you are not convinced yourself so you need exterior permission and acceptance.