Life in The Opposite
What's your dream? What you will be in the future? What major will you choose in university? Do you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend? At what age you will be married? How many children you want to have? etc. I don't know why people ask such questions. Until now. It's like never ending question, isn't it?
What makes me wondering is, Is such question just happened in my country or other countries do the same things? Or is it just a tradition? Maybe. I don't know. But, what I found was maybe it's depend on person. Because some of my friends from different countries they're very welcome and don't mind if I ask questions above. Although I don't ask specifically.
I think it's not a problem to ask people such questions. But, what we have to underline is everyone has their boundary. If they're not comfortable when you ask about something, then stop it. Don't try to get answers moreover compel theirs. Be respectful. And absolutely don't ask in the first time you chat or you meet. People have many characteristics and we don't know which character we talk to. Ask the common question and ask for their permission if you want to ask something privacy.
These are the points. I still found most of people are through the border. In addition, these days, we can access everything on the in internet. It makes easier for people to see a person's information and act like their know very well about that person. Whereas, they got that information through the internet or people saying. Sometimes, this annoying, right? Come on guys let's stop it.
I'm not fully hated, but I think it's not funny when people more hurt because this kind of thing. Luckily it's not happen to me. No, actually I've experienced it. But, I back to my sense soon. Because I know, no one in this world knows more about me except me and God. Don't live in people expectation. Accept and love yourself. Everyone is unique. Everyone is special.
I'm very thankful for those kind of people. Because of them, I have a different paradigm and a different perspective to see the world and see life. Many people encounter the change of fundamental paradigm when they get a threatening mental crisis and suddenly see their priority on the other side or different ways. And yeay! That's what makes me try life in the opposite. I want to break through "the rule of life" and get out of my comfort zone. Explore more, learn more, and experience more so I can lift up myself to the next level becomes the best me.
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What's your dream? What you will be in the future? What major will you choose in university? Do you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend? At what age you will be married? How many children you want to have? etc. I don't know why people ask such questions. Until now. It's like a never ending question, isn't it?
What makes me wondering is, Is do such questions just happened in my country or in other countries do the same things happen? Or is it just a tradition? Maybe. I don't know. But, what I found was maybe it's depend it depends on the person. Because some of my friends from different countries they're very welcome open and don't mind if I ask questions above like these. Although I don't ask them exactly like that.
I think it's not a problem to ask people such questions. But, what we have to underline is everyone has their boundary. If they're not comfortable when you ask about something, then stop it. Don't try to get answers moreover compel theirs forcefully. Be respectful. And absolutely don't ask in the first time you chat or you meet. People have many characteristics and we don't know which character we talk to. Ask the common question normal questions and ask for their permission if you want to ask something privacy. intimate.
These are the points. I still found most of people are through the border. In addition, these days, we can access everything on the in internet. It makes it easier for people to see a person's information and act like their they know very well about that person very well. Whereas, they got that information through the internet or people saying gossip. Sometimes, this is annoying, right? Come on guys let's stop it.
I'm not really hated, but I think it's not funny when people are hurt because of this kind of thing. Luckily it's not happened to me. No, actually I've experienced it. But, I back to my sense soon. Because I know, no one in this world knows more about me except me and God. Don't live in people expectations. Accept and love yourself. Everyone is unique. Everyone is special.
I'm very thankful for those kind of people. Because of them, I have a different paradigm and a different perspective to see the world and see life. Many people encounter the change of fundamental paradigm when they get a threatening mental crisis and suddenly see their priority on the other side or different ways. And yeay! That's what makes me try life in the opposite another way. I want to break through "the rules of life" and get out of my comfort zone. (Had to delete some for space)
What makes me wondering is, Is do such questions just happened in my country or in other countries do the same things happen? Or is it just a tradition? Maybe. I don't know. But, what I found was maybe it's depend it depends on the person. Because some of my friends from different countries they're very welcome open and don't mind if I ask questions above like these. Although I don't ask them exactly like that.
I think it's not a problem to ask people such questions. But, what we have to underline is everyone has their boundary. If they're not comfortable when you ask about something, then stop it. Don't try to get answers moreover compel theirs forcefully. Be respectful. And absolutely don't ask in the first time you chat or you meet. People have many characteristics and we don't know which character we talk to. Ask the common question normal questions and ask for their permission if you want to ask something privacy. intimate.
These are the points. I still found most of people are through the border. In addition, these days, we can access everything on the in internet. It makes it easier for people to see a person's information and act like their they know very well about that person very well. Whereas, they got that information through the internet or people saying gossip. Sometimes, this is annoying, right? Come on guys let's stop it.
I'm not really hated, but I think it's not funny when people are hurt because of this kind of thing. Luckily it's not happened to me. No, actually I've experienced it. But, I back to my sense soon. Because I know, no one in this world knows more about me except me and God. Don't live in people expectations. Accept and love yourself. Everyone is unique. Everyone is special.
I'm very thankful for those kind of people. Because of them, I have a different paradigm and a different perspective to see the world and see life. Many people encounter the change of fundamental paradigm when they get a threatening mental crisis and suddenly see their priority on the other side or different ways. And yeay! That's what makes me try life in the opposite another way. I want to break through "the rules of life" and get out of my comfort zone. (Had to delete some for space)
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