The Art Of Talking 谈话的艺术 I am a sales representative. The conversation skills are very important of the business talking with customers. Some customers like going straight forward, and some customers like being euphemistic and reserved. Personally, I like the conversation with sincerity, honesty and kindness, regardless the final result of the cooperation situation. I like learning the art of talking from daily conversation. A few days ago I visited a friend, she was my college classmate. Me and her have talked a lot about our life and work stuff. When she talked about the shortcomings of small firms, she mentioned some views that I thought she was being with prejudice. In order to avoid the arguments, I did not retort her with my opinions. Moreover, she mentioned one of my immature relationships in the past, which I have almost forgotten. She just brought it up and made a judgement! Honestly, I was not really happy her behavior really. I reflected on myself, am I the one who often make a pessimistic judgement of other people's life? It would be better not to judge or deny others. 谈话的艺术 我的职业是销售代表。在和客户的谈话中，沟通的技巧很重要。有的客户喜欢直来直往，有的客户喜欢委婉含蓄。就我个人而言，我喜欢真诚，坦率，友好的沟通，不管最终能不能达成合作。在生活中，我喜欢从日常沟通中学习谈话的艺术。 前几天我去拜访了一个朋友，她是我的大学同学。我和她聊了很多关于工作和生活的事情。她在谈到小企业的缺点时，说了很多我觉得她有偏见的看法。为了避免争论，我没有像我真实想法那样反驳她。还有一点就是，我之前的一段不成熟的感情，如今已经几乎没有什么印象了。她主动提起来，评论一番。老实说，我对这些真的不是很开心。 我反省了一下自己，我会经常消极评论别人的人生吗？在谈话中，最好不要轻易去评论和否定别人。