Do you speak usually? Try to remember what do you tell your friends every day? Are these themes important for you? Or you just talk about the "weather"? Or you usually don't talk? When I ask myself these questions I find that more othen I ask my friends about anything and very rarely tell something. It is really interesting for me to ask. I can find interesting for me a lot of themes. Sometimes it is reason why I get along with new people well. I just ask them about what I'm interesting in and they answer me and we both happy. How do you think can we figure out what about person usually think if we every day listen to what does he speak about? Is it possible most part of every day to think about one thing and speak with your friends about another thing? I think it is possible. It can happen due to different reason but it isn't good anyway. I think that we need check yourself, check our thinking. I believe that it is easy to make a mistake and don't catch it in time. It isn't funny to build yourself and through time to realize that for example year ago you got wrong in your thinking and all year you'd been doing something wrong. But on the one hand it is happy end becouse you realized it. Worse if you continue to live with it whole life. It is dangerous thinking that you know better than other. You need to share your thinking and listen to yourself in this moment. It is strange but it will sound differently then inside your head when you just think about it. It is strange effect for me) I don't understand why it is happen.