Should I Refuse Others Strongly When my friend begged me to travel by high-speed rail, I really wanted to refuse her but I didn't, so I made compromise and I am not in a good mood now. In fact, she knew clearly that I didn't prefer to travel in this way while she still wanted me to follow her advice, though actually it was not a wise choice. Sometimes, I cannot express my truly feelings to others, which confuses me a lot. Dealing with the relationships between others in my real life makes me tired, so I am fond of staying alone and writing down some meaningless words and hugging myself tightly.