The Friendship Faded Away Somebody once told me there are no permanent friends or permanent enemies, but I didn't really understand at that time. After I had parted in discord with some friends, it dawned on me what that sentence mean. So I began to realize many things are not absolute. True and lasting friendship must be based on a substantially firm relationship and confidence. It used to be said that friends in need are friend indeed. Because sharing bad things is more difficult than sharing good ones. The lasting friendship is not easy to keeping, because a lot of things changes over time. Basically, nothing can be fixed forever. When you slowing down your pace of life, you will find what you want and what true friendship is. The true and lasting friendship need to put your mind to deal well. According to my experience, there are two reason for the friendship faded away. One reason is that the relationship is not strong enough to stand the test. I once had a friend of mine can talk about anything and everything before. When we are in a bad moon, we always listen to each other, and then gave each other consolation and blamed on somebody wrong. When we gather together, our main interest is to gossip. I had ever thought we are closely linked and inseparable because we knew each other too much. However after we fight each other at once time, we went our separate ways. So far I can’t understand that we are just quarreling why she had to spread rumors everywhere and even fabricated untouchable gossip to slander me, but also I have never told her in addition to her secret spread out. She enough to knew me she can hurt me so deep. I didn’t accept her apology, because I dare not believe her again. Our friendship is like bifurcated hair that can’t repair like before. After that I became to not easy to believe anybody...(undone)