The few things you should know about the marriage The marriage keep told the girls, its love and it will be forever, you will get safety in the marriage even you are not young and pretty anymore. But the truth is: you will lose your freedom because the gender inequality, became a slave of your husband, do all the house working and baby caring, prepare the food for your husband and child. For man who benefit from the marriage, is also frustration. Any girl you love, you will stop sleep with her after 10 years, asexual which is against the natural. You can see 95% of Chinese couple miserable look everyday who's age beyond 35 are not happy because the life pressure, also sexual repression. I don't know what it look like in other countries, but it does look like this in China. Maybe I'm still junior in the marriage. The only things I know is natural have been made by god. The marriage had been designed by human, if you know what I mean.