Constraint is NOT Love It's really bizarre that many parents in China are always want to take charge of their children's future about everything, yes, everything! No matter how mature you are or what you really want to achieve, they just order you to do things that they want rather than you. That's too bad. Every year when millions of gradutes have to make their own options about their future, their parents will impel them to choose something and they always have various reasons to explain their behavior. In most cases, love is the only reason. Yeah, no one can love you more than your parents, but that can't be an excuse. As a totally indepent person in society, i deem they can do better than anyone else in planning their own future.