Love is not necessary, but Luxury It’s pretty interesting that some of my friends will keep asking me every a short period about whether I am still waiting and chasing, because I wrote”chasing and waiting” in my skype. Even my answer is the same every time. Haha…To be honest, is there anyone in my mind? Sure, I do. I bet every single person does. But why I am not only waiting, but also chasing. Because they are two totally different things. 'Waiting', maybe I am still waiting that person, but also maybe it won’t be anymore one day. 'Chasing', I am chasing what makes me believe fate and helps me find out my dream&value of my life. To find a true love, some people would think they should try to meet many people and fall in love with a lot of people so that they can find out the right one who suits them most. However, how many of you will feel deep regret about how u did during every relationship. But sometimes, you are able to learn a lot and sort out what you want through even just once heart-breaking. On the opposite side, I also dislike the way to wait for someone’s love all the time. You can crazy about somebody, but you don’t have to wait for him by using all your time with the whole of your heart. I know why such an amount of people wanna stay with a person is because he can give you a sense of security, or more. Whatever, who can guarantee that this person won’t leave you in the future. You know there is another kind of sense of security that only belongs to yourself. And do you believe that everyone was born with a mission. Or we can call it the value of our life. With it, no matter how many stuffs you lose, you still can face the life and yourself bravely. Because at least you know that your life is meaningful and your mission will never betray you even you have buried it in the deep of your heart. Never make love as a necessary, but a luxury. You will learn to cherish the value of your life, then you can find a better way to love somebody but also yourself.