The great misconception of love or where I think lies the deep rooted issue.
My point of view is this, don't get me wrong.
Today, In modern society, I would even say since the 20th century we as a human being get fed up with the narrative of the mainstream media when it comes down to what we so called love.
Hollywood, magazines, tv shows, social media and so on are demonstrating a huge misconception and painting a vivid picture in our heads which are indeed not reliable.
The MOST relationships are built out of scarcity, which means that a lot of individuals are in a relationship because they see no alternatives.
To get this point of view little bit clearer, I tell you a little story about Dave:
Let's say Dave has a friend his name is Jason, Jason has a beautiful girlfriend and is so far jubilant as never before.
His girlfriend invites Jimmi to her mammoth Birthday party, with all the champagne and other crazy stuff and tells Jimmi in advance that she wants to introduce him to her super hot female friend Maria.
Jimmi is now super excited, puts on his best clothes he has, the alluring perfume he stole in his grandmother's shop, and after spending several hours in the bathroom little Jimmi in now ready to do some party.
To keep it short, Jimmi arrives there on time, meets Jason with his sweetheart and Maria, Maria and Jimmi starting to chat about several topics and have some laughter here and there drink some alcohol, but something is bothering little Jimmi, he actually don't really like Maria, this is what his gut is feeling is telling him.
But, and now pay attention, His rational thinking mind will go along, because, he has now access to great pleasure (because she is attractive) and it would be such a pain in the ass not to go along with it because it would maybe take another 1 to 5 years to meet another woman.
This is the actually what is happening a lot of times because man and woman don't have a lot of choices if they stay average and rely on their little social circle.
They take what they've got because there is right know no BETTER EASIER choice.
If it works, if you can get along on several topics, they are happy, there are fucking happy, they have no so-called standards, better, they start to lower them.
As I said in the beginning, not everybody is like this, but a scary amount of human beings are exactly like this.
Over a 60% worldwide are not happy with what they are dealing with when it comes down to a relationship, you don't want to see the statistics for OFFICIAL marriage breakups.
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The great misconception of love or where I think lies the deep rooted issue lies.
Today, In modern society, (I would even say since the 20th century) we as a human beings get fed up with the narrative of the mainstream media when it comes down to what we so called love. [either: '...when it comes to so called love' or '...when it comes down to what we call love'. If you combine the two it is too complex and doesn't work]
Hollywood, magazines, tv shows, social media and so on
To get this point of view little bit clearer, I will tell you a little story about Dave:
Let's say Dave has a friend his name is Jason, Jason has a beautiful girlfriend and is so far jubilant as never before. [Ending doesn't work- use 'happier than ever before']
His girlfriend invites Jimmi to her mammoth Birthday party, with
Jimmi is now super excited, puts on his best clothes he has, the alluring perfume he stole in his grandmother's shop, and after spending several hours in the bathroom little Jimmi in now ready to do some party. ['go to the party' or just '...ready to party'. Party can be used as a noun or a verb but as it refers to an event can never be split into parts or 'some']
To keep it short, Jimmi arrives there on time, meets Jason with his sweetheart and Maria. Maria and Jimmi start
But, and now pay attention,
This is
They take what they've got because there is right
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The great misconception of love or where I think lies the deep rooted issue.
My point of view is this, don't get me wrong.Most people looking for love settle for much less passion than that found in the Romantic love dramatized in the mainstream media.
Today, In modern society, I would even say since the 20th century we as a human being get fed up with the narrative of the mainstream media when it comes down to what we so called love.
Hollywood, magazines, tv shows, social media , etc. propagate gross misconceptions about most relationships. The vivid pictures they paint in our heads are unrealistic. MOST relationships are limited to people available in the immediate area.
Dave story illustrates this point::
Dave has a friend his name is named Jason. Jason is jubilant to have a beautiful girlfriend.
His girlfriend invites Jimmy to her mammoth birthday party, with champagne and other crazy stuff . She tells Jimmy in advance that she wants to introduce him to her super hot female friend Maria.
Now super excited, Jimmy puts on his best clothes he has, and the alluring perfume cologne that he stole in his grandmother's shop. After spending several hours in the bathroom little Jimmy is ready for the party.
Jimmy arrives at the party on time, meets Jason with his sweetheart and her friend Maria. Maria and Jimmy chat and laugh about several topics while drinking alcohol. Yet Jimmy is disappointed. , He actually don't really like Maria, this is what His gut is feeling is telling him he doesn't really like Maria very much but he finds her very attractive. Thinking rationally instead of romantically he goes along with the chance to be with this new woman because he fears it will be years before he mets another as hot.
But, and now pay attention, So thinking rationally he will go along, because, he has now access to great pleasure (because she is attractive) and It would be such a pain in the ass not to go along with it because it would maybe take another 1 to 5 years to meet another woman. These rational decisions happen often because people don't have many opportunities to meet eligible people of the opposite sex.
This is the actually what is happening a lot of times because man and woman don't have a lot of choices if they stay average and rely on their little social circle.
They take what they've can now because there is no BETTER EASIER choice. { An old saying: a bird in hand is worth 2 in the bush }
If it works, they get along on several fronts. They are happy. there They are fucking happy. They don't have unrealistic standards. It was better to have lowered their expectations.
As I said in the beginning, not every couple is like this, but a scary amount of couples are exactly like this.
Over 60% of couples worldwide are not happy with what they are dealing with when it comes down to a their relationship. I believe this explains the high divorce rate in OFFICIAL statistics for OFFICIAL marriage breakups.
Your opinions are refreshingly frank and very plausible.
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