How to avoid conflict Conflicts with others are common in everyday life.It was my classmates Su and Li who had a quarrel when playing basketball.As a result,they had a difficult relationship with each other. Who was to blame for the conflict?lt is really hard to say,but maybe botn of them were responsible for it.Just as saying goes“lt takes two to take a quarrel”,neither of them was calm and couldn't control themselves ,and either of them only thought about himself.As we all know,during a ball game,pulling,pushing and bumping are sometimes unavoidable and acceptable. In fact,it's not that difficult to avoid conflicts.Above all,we should learn to be considerate.Only when all of us think more about others can we live,study or play with one another in harmony.In terms of playing basketball,as long as we have a right attitude towards it,that is to say,through it we mainly exercise and enjoy ourselves,we'll not be that rude to others.