How to text to a girl Are you the kind of guy who likes going to any social event to collect phone numbers from girls, but do not meet them up again? If you had a good time, but then nothing happens you probably do not how to text a girl. To start with, how many days have passed since she gave you her phone number? Nowadays, a regular person receives many messages on a daily basis. After getting her phone number, write her in no more than 48 hours. We also meet new people and do lots of activities then it could be a good idea to write your name in your first message. Once she replies your message, you should start a conversation by calling back to something you talked about on the previous days. Do not get sad if her replies do not look as if she were excited to talk to you. Assuming that your goal is to have a date, the next message will be crucial. Here you have two options: First, if you have already known well each other, you could get right to the point. Do not be afraid of asking her to go out with you. However, if you are either a bit shy or conservative, you should go for chatting with her for some days until you know better her and decide to ask her out. Although, if you aim for a date, I will not go for that option because after some days of chatting she can only see you as a friend or you both probably stop sending messages to one another. Some men feel great when getting a phone number from a girl, but it is only the first step. It does not guarantee you anything. Be careful of what kind of messages you send her.