How to get a woman as a language partner Since I’ve joined iTalki, I’ve been reading some posts, in which women complain about some men who apparently just look for a girlfrined rather than a language partner. I believe that’s true, in my case, among all the messages that I’ve received just 5 or 6 belonged to women who wanted me as a language partner. In other words, more than 90% of messages in my inbox are from men. It’s not bad if you want a woman as a language partner. You should continue reading this text if you haven't had success in this issue. To start with, if you’re learning English, for example, but just a few people are interesting in learning your native language you can look for a partner who, like you, have English as her target language. You can send a polite message explaining, in a few sentences, why are you learning English and why do you want from her as a language partner. Sending a message with that topics will give you more chances to get a partner than the typical “Do you skype?” or “ You’re such a beauty”. However, if you notice that your native language is popular, you can look for native language speakers. In this case, my advice is the same. You should send her a message saying why you’re learning her native language and showing that you’re willing to help her with her target language. If you do that, you show yourself as a serious learner. As a result, you probably find a good partner. Don’t exagerate with your messages though. I’ve seen many English native speakers who only have women as friends on iTalki. I suppose they take advange of the fact that everyone wants to learn his native language. In my opinion, women have to realize whether someone is a serious learner or just want to flirt. P.D: You also have to understand when someone is only looking for language native speakers