为什么举办聚会/晚餐是我的兴趣之一 （第三部） The first reason why you want to organize dinners as your hobby is because it gives you a chance to test drive a person just as you would test drive a car. If you don’t like a person that you met, no worries, you‘ll never see them again. For example, I’ll tell you one of my dinner events that I like to tell other people. This was on a wednesday night with six other people, and admittedly I was chase this girl. I found out, through dinner, that this girl was seven years my senior, and to add salt to the wound, she was already married. What does that mean? Great, I get to avoid an awkward situation and it is someone that I can pursue, but we can still remain friends. 首先，你应该安排晚餐的原因是因为你可以尝试一个人就像开车一样。如果不喜欢一个人，放心， 你再也不会见到她。举个例子来说，我分享我长提出的一件晚餐。一个周三我跟六个人吃饭，果然是为了追其中一位女神。透过晚餐，我才知道这位姑娘比我大七岁，甚至已经结婚了。 好的事情是，我结果避免了一个尴尬的情况，还留着友情。 http://lang-8.com/1091561/journals/70863841537131438944387382125404261324