To help or not to help? Last few days I was wondering about help. Should I help to everybody, who ask for me? People become upset when I refuse their requests, I also become upset. But on the contrary I'm losing my time, when I'm doing what people ask for. Sometimes I don't want to do smth what people ask for. And I can't help everybody. Or maybe I just selfish and just think about myself? I don't think so, I respect my time. Eventually, I think I should help people if this relationship is important for me, if I have enough time. It also depends on what kind of help is needed. And also I should think about my benefits and consequenses - what I can get from helping: money, better pelationship, fame or smthing else. If I can be really useful, I should help, for example, on italki. But if somebody, who is asking me for help, can do that thing like me, why doesn't he do this?