what has happened

Well, I even forget when the last time I wrote the notebook on this web.
There were a lot things happened, and I have been changing a lot too.

ehm.. today I read a book about relationship. The point I got from the book is that Men need appreciate appreciation and women need support. That's one of the points that can keep your relationship in the right track.

Then.. I found one quote said that "sometimes, when the broke up. the one was leaving who's the only one understand the real reason". i did't got what the meaning of this quote. anyone want to describe it to me??

why?

well, I'm not broken hearted girl right now haha

Notes: I don't know what you were reading but the quote is in very broken English so I will try to answer the best sI can.  

I think this "sometimes, when the broke up. the one was leaving who's the only one understand the real reason" I think is " When two people break up and one leaves the person leaving is the only one that knows the real reason.

I think jit just means that that when there is a break up and one person is the the one leaving, the person leaving is the only ones that know the "real" reason for break up. Some people will find "excuses" and use those as reasons as to the break up or to justify to themselves to retionalize the break up. Some people lie and deny, which is how they live because they can't handle the truth or if it means that they had a part in the break up thgey can't handle that truth of they had  part in the relationship not working. Escapegoats is what the excuses, lies and denials are considered.

Example: If I broke up with someone I was dating that became a slob, and unhelpful around the living area (if shared living arrangements), and uncommunicative the other person might say I was too neat and demanding and unapproachable to rationalize the break up as they had a part in it. They might say it was all me and no fault of their own. I as the person that broke it off would know that I wasn't at fault or the only one at fault. I say no fault as if one cheated and one didn't the one that cheated would be only one at fault for cheating on the other person. A generality is that it is two to make a relationship or two to tango, or a two way street and so if something doesn't work and people want to blame or find fault it is both sides as there is usually something they Both could have done better.  

I hope this makes some sense to you.