is it wrong that i donnot want to marry?
i am 27 years old. almost all my friends who is at the same age have got married and have babies. everytime i talk to them, they ask me when i will get married. they also make the discussion group in the webchat, QQ,and i am in these groups. they offen talk about marriage, pregnent,babies. when they talk about these topics, i have no same points with them. i am so sad that i donnot want to make relationship with them.in addiation, i have the same pressure from my parents. i even won't to have chuxi with them this year. i am eager to make friens with similar people. but in china, it is very diffcult.
now, i get ready to learn one new language to fill my parttime. so that i can get away to these troule.
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is it wrong that i donnot want to marry?
i am 27 years old. almost all my friends who is at the same age have got married and have babies. everytime i talk to them, they ask me when i will get married. they also make the discussion group in the webchat, QQ,and i am in these groups. they offen talk about marriage, pregnent,babies. when they talk about these topics, i have no same points with them. i am so sad that i donnot want to make relationship with them.in addiation, i have the same pressure from my parents. i even won't to have chuxi with them this year. i am eager to make friens with similar people. but in china, it is very diffcult.
now, i get ready to learn one new language to fill my parttime. so that i can get away to these troule.
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Is it wrong that I do not want to marry?
I am 27 years old. Almost all of my friends who are the same age have gotten married and have babies. Every time I talk to them, they ask me when I will get married. They also make group discussions in webchat, QQ,and i am in these groups. They often talk about marriage, pregnancy and,babies. When they talk about these topics, I have no similar points to discuss with them. am so sad that do not want to make relationship with them. In addition, I have the same pressure from my parents. I don't even want to have chuxi with them this year. I am eager to make friends with similar minded people, but in china, it is very difficult.Now, I am getting ready to learn a new language to fill my spare time so that I can get away from these troubles.
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It is not wrong to not want to get married as some marriages are not good ones. Some get married but have no children. It is up to you on getting married or not. You need to fill your life with people that understand and feel the same for not "needing" to get married feeling.
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Tough situation, and quite lonely but, I don't think leaving the country and family & friends is an absolute necessity, I think all it takes is a well-studied "DECISION", you have a moment with yourself, you think very profoundly and deeply of what you really want in this matter, as we all know marriage is a nature in us, and basically a good thing, but none should ever force anyone to do it what-so-ever, all they can do is "suggesting" to you, the last call must be yours, so decide (maybe after all you DO want to, maybe you're just ready yet or the "right" one hasn't come yet, or maybe there's something else), so you decide and whenever you need to, tell all the world what your decision is, and it shall ( or at least "should") be respected.
Good luck ^_^
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