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Tiger Mom and Helicopter Parent Recently, I happened to read an article from a book. it made me think a lot. it talked about a quite interesting topic for me,like "Tiger Mom "and "helicopter parent".I am not sure that phrases like that have really made their way into everyday language? if so, how do you about it? I am a typically chinese girl. I didn't mean to stereotype, at least, I have a traditional chinese parent.when I was a little girl I was not allowed to do anything with my parents permitted. but that's fine by me. I thought that all parents would do like that:just pay attention to their kids, clear all the obstacles ahead of them.,being a parent is minimizing risk for their children. but I found out maybe I was wrong. when I was talking about our parent with my best friend ,it reminds me of what I have gone through. I was not allowed saty at a friends' house overnight; I had to come back home home before 10:30 at night; I need to keep distance from those boys, yep, and they would stop me do anything that they thought what would bring dangerous for me. I think it's not mere a coincidence, I talked about my parents with my friend, and Uh-oh, after a short while, I read this article. so I was wondering is there something wrong with kind of "overparenting style "?

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Tiger Mom and Helicopter Parent

Recently, I happened to read an article from a book. It made me think a lot. It talked about quite an interesting topic for me: "Tiger Mom" and "helicopter parent". I am not sure that phrases like that have really made their way into everyday language. If so, how do you feel about them?

I am a typical chinese girl. I don't mean to stereotype, but, I have a traditional Chinese parent. When I was a little girl I was not allowed to do anything without my parents permission, but that's fine by me. I thought that all parents acted that way: just pay attention to their kids, clear all the obstacles ahead of them. Being a parent is minimizing risk for your children.

 

I found out maybe I was wrong. When I was talking about our parents with my best friend, it reminded me of what I have gone through.
I was not allowed stay at a friends' house overnight;
I had to come back home before 10:30 at night;
I need to stay away from those boys, yep, and they would stop me from doing anything that they thought was dangerous for me.

I think it's not merely a coincidence that I talked about my parents with my friend, and uh-oh, after a short while, I read this article. So I was wondering, is there something wrong with this kind of "overparenting" style?

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I think that's a great question to ask. I believe most every parent does what they believe is best for their children. In that way, I don't believe there is anything wrong with over parenting, but it might not be the most effective way either. When parents are strict with their children it is because they believe it is what is best. When parents are less strict, it is also because they believe it is best. Even though I dislike helicopter parents greatly in my line of work, I still believe helicopter parents are doing what they think is best for their children. I would have reacted very poorly to a tiger mom, I needed a little more freedom when I was young. My older sister is very similar to me. Our younger sister needed more structure than we did. My parents treated her differently because what they believed was best for her was different from what they believed was best for my older sister and myself.

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