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5 sure steps to avoding an argument N.B.I was asked to write a tip sheet, using simple straightforward style. So, here's my piece of writing. We all having arguments with people. Are you wondering how to prevent it? Then use these five simple steps and they will help you. 1. Be ready to say you’re sorry Apologize for anything you can possibly be sorry for. Even if there’s nothing wrong, you can apologize for the way your actions or words affected someone. Sometimes an apology is enough to disarm a person's frustration or anger. In many cases, an argument dissapears as soon as a sincere apology is given. 2. Don’t raise your voice Yelling isn’t the best way to resolve the problem. It will only make the problem worse to deal with. Instead of shouting, express yourself using calm and friendly tone. 3. Stay calm If you become angry, keep in mind that you won’t be able to think calmly. Moreover you’ll probably say or do something you might regret. Words, once spoken, cannot be taken back. During that time try to relax and keep listening to your partner carefullywhatever he is saying. After your partner made his point , explain your side of the story . 4. Explain your side of the story in detail Put across your idea in clear and easy way so that your partner will get the main point. Also be ready to criticism because very often the other person’s opinion is not the same as yours. 5. Try to make a joke Laughter is the best medicine. You should understand the purpose of using humour in particular situation. Its aim is about helping both of you to not take yourselves so seriously, even if the topic itself is very serious. Used in right contex, it helps keep both sides cool and stops the escalation of argument from becoming worse. Follow these five easy steps and you’re sure to find yourself in a harmonious and loving relationship.

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5 Sure Steps to Avoding an Argument

N.B. I was asked to write a tip sheet, using a simple, straightforward style. So, here's my piece of writing.

We all have arguments with people. Are you wondering how to prevent it them? Then use these five simple steps and they will help you.

1. Be ready to say you’re sorry (Depending on how you present this article/tip sheet, capitalizing the proper letters in these headers or "mini-titles" might look better. It's not wrong though to leave them uncapitalized.)
Apologize for anything you can possibly be sorry for. Even if there’s nothing wrong, you can apologize for the way your actions or words affected someone. Sometimes an apology is enough to disarm a person's frustration or anger. In many cases, an argument dissapears as soon as a sincere apology is given. (Very good!)
2. Don’t raise your voice
Yelling isn’t the best way to resolve the problem. It will only make the problem worse to deal with. Instead of shouting, express yourself using a calm and friendly tone.
3. Stay calm
If you become angry, keep in mind that you won’t be able to think calmly. Moreover/More likely, you’ll probably say or do something you might regret. Words, once spoken, cannot be taken back. During that time try to relax and keep listening to your partner carefully - whatever he or she is saying. After your partner has made his or her (You can also use the pronoun "their" in this situation to cover both genders, but it's not completely "correct". I don't see the problem with it though and use it for that purpose all the time. :P) point, explain your side of the story.
4. Explain your side of the story in detail
Put across your idea in a clear and easy way so that your partner will get the main point. Also be ready to accept criticism because very often the other person’s opinion is not the same as yours.
5. Try to make a joke
Laughter is the best medicine. You should understand the purpose of using humour in a particular situation. Its aim is about helping to help both of you to not take yourselves so seriously, even if the topic itself is very serious. Used in the right context, it helps keep both sides cool and stops the escalation of an argument from becoming worse.

Follow these five easy steps and you’re sure to find yourself in a harmonious and loving relationship.

 

Excellent article, I was really impressed with your vocabulary and natural writing style. For a while I seriously wondered if you didn't have someone write the steps for you. :P Cool subject too. Though I've tried the humor method when arguing with someone before - I now believe that should be used only as a last resort. :P In conclusion: Great English and advice, man!

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