Boyfriend I am single. Many people around me feel sorry for my life , because we should be married already when our age are at 25 to 28 in china, or they would be shame even then. If there are a child without a lover, their parents will become nevous and look for youth with the same ages. these youth will refuse to go home with kinds of excuses. They will be worry about themselves, afraid other's laugh, and stay home all day on weekend. So this is a vicious corcle. There are many reason of being single, most common one is sitting around at home. It is not a healthy way of life. We should go out often to make friends and take exercise. The world is so big to travel away and learn more.