Is there a third choice ? of course,yes.
To be honest , everybody like good things, good views, good body, good looking.Men always want to talk or play with beautiful girl , women want too. Beause it is cool and you can show it to everyone, even to stranger , sound like you are saying : looking at me , how beautiful, how handsome I am .I am so attrative.
For girls, they want a perfect face, give me ten kilograms more I am willing to become a little bit more beautiful .From this you can see it , today why there are so many women or men want or already have made operations on their face and body .In a long time ago make up was a prostitute's thinngs, but today it become the greatest inventr for women. It is really good for us, you can change and make people feel more beautiful.
Then there is exactly the opposite of girl coming up, they are neat and clean ,dress conservatively and comfortably , they avoid being overly made-up ,looked very bred and every inch a lady.They are so special , very self , very confident, even though they dont packaged as people exect.They are special , you can see from the crowd at a glace of her. They make people feel comfortable , giving a beauty to enjoy , this grace has nothing to do with appearance, it just can make a woman of average has strong attraction,sometimes even more than beauty. I really like them and want to be one of them, advocate natural , listen to the heart , be a real people.
The beauty of the two kinds of completely different is great,the modern and beauty of nature give people different feelings, It is funny, beause I find and kind of expected someone to be amazing. I would have been more surprised if they haven't been the great, down-to-earth girls they are .
Now there are a lot of girls don't self-confidence, feel they are too fat, not beautiful enough , not sexy more, not elegant, not delicate eough ,they can't go out if they find they are not perfect today. I just want to say: no, you must get your self-confidence , dress a clothes you like and wear a pair of comfortable shoes, then you are beautiful enough . sometimes we need to take a beautiful make-up , wear a suited and pretty dress, but we dont need to do this things everyday, we need to pay more time on other things , beacuse we don't just want to be a worthless vase.
I think you really get the third choice:women like to be pretty who don't ,but the time shouldn't spend more on it. You are just waste your time .
Thanks for reading, be well.
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Afrao... you have written a very good notebook. I agree with your thoughts and I'm glad that you have chosen the second option.
In English we have an expression (I'm sure there is a similar expression in Chinese culture) : "Beauty is only skin deep."
The true beauty of a person comes from their character (the way they are / the kind of person they are).
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A very interesting point of view. I think I belong to the second type, I don't pretend to be someone else, I like being myself. But sometimes I can feel very sad, thinking I'm not good enough for someone.
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