wedding I was attend a wedding at 12:00 on April 12, the bride is my classmate, this wedding like a mini class reunion, When I chatted with my classmates ,we actually had graduated 11 years, time really flies, in the Wedding Banquet most impressed me is that I actually to got the bouquet, and custom legends shortly after receipt of the bouquet into marriage.While in Eastern culture,I am in marriageable age, but I really do not want to live Orientals called " A girl should get married on coming of age" .We need to comply with the oriental culture, girls need to study,get job,and get marry, maybe with the customs of the relevant levels of government planning. Asian woman need to service to husband's father and mother,bear continue the family line, foster parents and other filial responsibility for others and live forever.Compared to Westerners is more freedom for their own happiness alive, If someone want to marriage then do it, most parents do not press, and the government old-age benefits plan well,do not worry about going to keep the family to take care of their parents, maybe I have not contacted Westerners many much, but I've heard most of those culture that those Westerners told me. 我在4月12日中午12點參與一場喜宴,新娘是我的同學,這場喜宴像是小型同學會,跟其他同學聊天細算,我們居然已經畢業11年了,時間真是過得飛快.在喜宴中最讓我印象深刻的是我居然抽到捧花了,習俗傳說收到捧花不久後便踏入婚姻,雖然在東方我的年齡是適婚年齡,但我真的不想過著東方人所謂的"女大當嫁",需要遵從東方文化,女孩子就是念書然後就業再來就是結婚生子,孝順公婆,可能跟風俗民情級政府規劃有關,東方人常背負傳承接待養育父母盡孝道等責任,永遠在為他人而活,相較於西方人就比較自由,為自己快樂活著,想婚就婚,父母大都不會催促,而且政府老年福利規劃很好,也不用擔心要養家庭還要照顧父母,也許我接觸的西方人不多,但我聽到的大部分是這樣,真令人羨慕自由奔放的生活!!