Should we follow the direction from our parents all the time? In the traditional Asian society, we, the young, were taught to obey the direction from our parents and pay respect to the old one. Besides, sometimes, the young are snorted by the old while we come up with something innovative. Otherwise, in western, the old are not concern whether the young show respect to them and even persuade the young to challenge the past concept. As far as I Am concerned, I prone to stand up from the latter; then I will illustrate my opinions in the following paragraphs. Top of all, we are live in the fluctuating world, due to the invention of the internet, people can share the information in time around the world and communicate with each other around the clock. In this way, there is anticipation that more and more concepts will born and less and less outdated conservative ideas can pass the trials of time. Thus, the young must scrutinize those given ideas. Someone may still work in current world, though, others may be malfunctioning. Second, for the kindness, most of parents are reluctant to see their children live in misery and get hurt during their lifetimes like themselves. Therefore, those parents are prone to tackle with all the problems of their children beforehand and leave them in the cozy circumstance. In the long run, those children may not judges between right and wrong merely through their poor experience; worst of that, when confronted by problems, some of them tend to seek assistance from their parents all the time or even evade them. It is predictable that they would live in mess without accompanied by their parents. To sum up, though some people like to follow the directions from their parents and leave them to take all decisions, I prefer to listen to the voice from the bottom of my heart, think with my brain and control the life on my own.