do you think two diffrent people would make it? i am going on a distant-relationship with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend and i have been through a lot recently. We've been together for almost five years, and i've never doubted if i love him or not in tha past five years. But things went different as time went by. I found that there are so many differences between us. I like reading and kinda academic, while he doesn't care about his grades. i like English while he has no ideal of English. i hate smoking but that's what he likes most, and he is not willing to stop even for me. sometimes i even don't think we are at the same world. I admit that he is definetely not the perfect person as a boyfriend in my mind, so i am always trying to change him into that person. i know that is not right but i can't stop it. i've tried everything but i really can't. and that's why i doubted if i love him or not. i think i am just loving to change him into another people who is totally not him but perfectly meet my requirements. last night he came to see me and i enjoyed that feeling staying with him.omg, what is wrong with me!!! i really want to figure this out. if i loved him why would i want to change him into another person? if i didn't love him, why would i enjoy staying with him?