marriage It is really difficult to live with another person. I started to live with my husband from this December . But it is really difficult to live with. He thinks that women should cook . But

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marriage It is really difficult to live with another person. I started to live with my husband from this December . But it is really difficult to live with. He thinks that women should cook . But I have my work and after finishing work , I am so tired. I think that it is OK men sometimes cook dinner or they wash the dishes. And I like cats . But he doesn't like cats . He likes dogs. I love him but I don't know I can keep living with him.

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It is really difficult to live with another person.
I started living with my husband from this December .
But it is really difficult to live with him.
He thinks that women should cook .
But I have my job and after finishing work , I am so tired.
I think that it is OK for men to (sometimes) cook dinner (sometimes) or they to wash the dishes.
And I like cats . But he doesn't like cats . He likes dogs.

I love him but I don't know if I can keep living with him.

Oh dear... You have to talk to him about these problems as soon as possible, before it's too late! He will never understand the problem if you don't tell him about it! Wishing you the best of luck

Dear Crysfel Thank you for your comment. I know women know more about cleaning , washing the dishes etc in most cases. Yes, As you said, I have to talk about our lifestyle with my husband. Thank you.

Dear Ruthi Thank you for your advice. Did you give up having a cat !? My husband said " Which is more important me or the cat ? " I couldn't chose one. I will try to talk about my feelings to my husband .Thank you.

It is most important that you discuss these things with him.My husband also doesn't like cats.We had a cat but I gave up on it because it was making so many problems between us.I decided that he is more important to me than having a pet. My husband loves to cook,so I can't help you with that.But I can tell you that there are two secrets to having a good marriage - one is talking about everything and being open ,and the other is flexibility.Sometimes each of you will have to change something to get on together.It's not easy.Good luck.

I think you should talk to him about this and ask him for help, marriage is complicated when communication fails. I agree with you that men should help with the dishes, cleaning the house, cook, etc. But sometimes we need to hear that from our wife, tell him that you are also tired after work xD

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