Spring Festival is coming, stress is also coming. - 2015 02 10

Spring Festival holiday in coming next week and I will have 8 days away from work. What a good chance to meet relatives and friends.

I only wish nobody would ask me”what is your salary” or “When will you get married”. These are quite private and hurtful.

It is really stressful to be a 30-year-old-non-married woman in China, especially in the countryside.

I enjoy my current life. Sometimes I doubted whether you need to get married to be happy. Maybe I can live on my own. Isn’t it easier? But people made me feel guilty as if I was weird.

Marriage is very serious and important, I don’t want to rush and make mistake on any choice (I would phrase this something like "make a mistake that I might regret").

If the right one hasn't shown up yet, I will wait until the right time for me.

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It sounds like you are doing well for yourself, don't let your family get you down. No matter where you are, everybody's relatives are the same.

Spring Festival is coming, stress is also coming. - 2015 02 10

The Spring Festival holiday will be in coming next week and I will have 8 days off away from work. What a good chance to meet see relatives and friends.

I only wish that  nobody would asks me ”Do you earn a good salary?"how is your salary” or “When will you get married”. These are quite private and hurtful.hurting.

It is really stressful to be a 30-year-old-non-unmarried-woman in China, especially in the countryside.

I enjoy my current life. Sometimes I doubted whether one needs to pursue happiness by getting married. Maybe I can live on my own. Isn’t it easier? But people make me feel guilty, as if I was a weird one.

Marriage is very serious and important, I don’t want to rush and make a mistake with my on any choice.

If The right one hasn't shown up yet is not yet showing up, I will wait until he does. the best moment for me.