Hahaha, that's 'deep', David! I agree with you. And I think people’s ideas about what a real relationship encompasses has been overly romanticised. We are watching any odd Hollywood movie anticipating the script to be a mirror of our own life when, truly, it is a grotesque distortion. Surely, everybody desires to be accepted for what they are, to be loved unconditionally and to enjoy the benefits of emotional and physical security. I don’t think these values are lost today. People still seek them. But they have lost the skill to achieve them. Before I know that I can rely on an intimate partner, a substantial amount of time needs to elapse, and that time needs to have bad stretches (and good ones, too, for sure) during which this partner will not abandon the relationship. Our consumerist society cannot deal with ‘dull’ flavours anymore, with the bad or boring stretches of life. Once something starts like feeling ‘forever’ or ‘secure’ people seem to get scared that they will be deprived of their precious choice, that they will miss out or that they will have to sacrifice without receiving in return. Consumerism: In our daily meals, plain bread or rice or anything substantial gets dismissed for the more adventurous stuff. Hopping from relationship to relationship is like mistaking a box of chocolates for a healthy meal… We confuse the feeling of ‘being in love’ and sexual adventures with the satisfaction of a truly intimate, slowly grown, loving relationship. (Was that comment to long, I wonder… :D )

Love is like ghost,people always talk about it but nobody meets it.