Never got a lesson in a relationship-1 For the past two years, I have been falling in love with a married man. We met when he came to Taiwan for work. For the first time we chat, we have good impressions for each other. After 1 to 2 days, we met each other, had dinner. I enjoyed a lot while chatting with him, with my poor English. He was very patient and gentle, which we had even better impression for each other. I had a boyfriend that we have been dated for almost 10 years by that time. But after I met him, I started thinking what I really want. Then I decided to break up with my bf, its not because I fell in love with other man, its beacuse bf and I have been having arguments for few years, and I felt so much pressure when with him, since he always trying to change me to his ideal one. So I carried the thought that I would rather stay single, alone, but I have freedom. The married man came back to his country, and I felt this is it. What i thought by that time was I cherished every seconds with him, and its enough. It already a very good experience in my life. However, we didn't stop writing to each other. Mostly we talked about our daily life, thoughts and etc. All remain as friends. (continue)