What do you want your boyfriend and husband to be? It would be so appecriated if you will point out straight forward what part looks so weird. //// It will be appricated if you keep in your mind in thinking me as just one of the man who love girls while reading it. What kind of boy do you want to go out? Some guy who has a great sense of humor... Some dude has a natural flair for giving pleasure with some word we are not sure of if it is flattering or admiring. There's no certain answer for each girl as there're a lot of guys in the world. Talking about this will never end. So I will change the question just a little, What do you want your boyfriend and husband to be? Yes, your response will be like 'be what'? But please don't be liar. I know you have the experience to urge your boy to change his behavior. Stop drinking all the night... Let go of your anger... why didn't you clean out? .... but the only thing I can be sure of is you don't have the talent to change someone and don't need to do. Given that you received your package you purchased, you would decide you will get a refund or use it. Yes, you can choose the option to renovate it and fix it if there's some problem but you have to deserve to get being paid. But almost all of girls who try to get her boy to be better don't only get being paid but waste their time. because their dedication is supposed to be accepted for guys as a mother not as a lover. We love our mother but most of guys don't focus their view on mother but on a new girl. that's why I'm saying you have to choose one letting him go his own way or just leaving him.