Surrendering against the limitations to circumstances

I remember years ago when while I was reading a book, I encountered with this sentence:
"We always find ourselves in situations that we try our were trying whole lives to escape from them."

Actually, the more correct grammar would be as follows, though most English speakers don't bother (or know) to say this correctly!

"We always find ourselves in situations from which we try our whole lives to escape."

As one who believes that he was born in the wrong not a proper place and who also believes that, given the dreams and the personality type he has I have, he has been left no chance to flee, [it is difficult to surrender to my situation] from to not be surrendered against the events and limitations.

The sentence above is difficult for me to correct. You might try to break it down into shorter sentences. I am not sure if I have changed your meaning with my correction.

Prior to accept that I no longer see any options see no chance for myself anymore to leave Iran, I've tried as far as I was able to do.

Living here might not be not as much as bad as worse that I claim, but for me it's the worst country possible that it can be.

Now my only options are the only chance I have, is to escape illegally or stay here and accept consent that I have to surrender to my situation the limitations. I still have the option to fleeing but that doesn't look like a safe option, so the quote sentence that I read faced years ago is (still) completely accurate right, at least in my case.