I'm glad that you appreciate my comment. Knowing when we are saying or doing things that could be interpreted as sexual in other languages and cultures, even though in our own language they would have nothing to do with sex, is I think particularly important for women to understand and is rarely explained! Here are some things related to what you wrote that you do NOT want to say to a man unless you want him to think that you are asking to have sex with him: I want to have relations with you. I want to pleasure you or give you pleasure. I want to satisfy you. or I'm looking to be pleasured or satisfied. And if a man that you don't want to have sex with says these things to you make a quick exit. :) These are all ways for asking for sex in American English. They are not subtle. They are very direct requests. They are actually MORE direct than just about anything else you could say except actually using the word sexual relations. Relations is short for sexual relations and to pleasure or satisfy someone is often used to indicate that you would be willing to "go down on" a man (use your mouth). These are very aggressively sexual things to say, when in Spanish relacionar y placer would seem like good translations they can get you into trouble if used a little bit wrong so if you don't want to be misinterpreted by accident it's better to stick with felicidad y alegria as even though they might not seem like the right words - they really are. Happiness and joy won't get you into trouble usually. :) Hope that keeps some women out of situations that they would rather not be in! :)

Oh Dorothy ! thank you so much ! That's right ! but I think in Spanish you can say ''happines'' or ''the experience of pleasure'' and in this case they are very similar. I wanted to talk about everything that makes us feel better. I'm completely all right with you ! I think about it because I think it's an interesting and important question ! Thank you Dorothy :)

Because you are young woman and I'm an old one I feel that I should give you some hints on some subtleties that could be misinterpreted in English. When talking about "the pleasure experience" or "giving someone pleasure" or "pleasuring someone" and "momentary satisfaction" - all these words could easily be interpreted to have sexual overtones or meaning. What I think you are referring to is what we in America would call "happiness". Happiness is related to everything that makes us feel better about ourselves... These kinds of things are usually not discussed and rarely would someone point out something like this because they might be too embarrassed or not want to embarrass you, but I think these kinds of things are some of the most important to know and there's no way for you to know this unless someone tells you. Figuring out what happiness is to you is the key to a happy life so it's wonderful that you are thinking on these things.