My essay(Part 2) So what went wrong? Why can’t they perform as “well” as they do at work? Or at least, they should have acted more like young ladies as they supposed to be. “Himonos are the products of a high pressure society.” Ning Wang concluded in one periodical of the Chinese Academic Journal. “You see, deep down their souls, they are lonely waiting for someone else. However, instead of trying to go outside searching the world, to actually socialize with others, they tend to fear. They fear to be turned down. They are under so high pressure that they can not find their ways out once they are jilted by their lovers. And that’s why so many of them are still inexperienced in love.” So Wang suggests himonos ease their minds and learn to deal with pressure more positively. “There can be no help if they don’t help themselves.” She added. --Pressure, that might be one explanation. But what about the valuations of the outside world? One netizen says that he will not have a himono girlfriend as he thinks that’s boring staying indoors. “I just can’t figure out how they manage to do so!” Another netizen says he is confused about himono and otaku. “Anyway, neither of them (otaku and himono) has attraction to me… ” Not only the young men find himonos are unacceptable, but also their female counterparts. A recent interview published online from qq.com says that some young women would rather be “Qingnu”, that is the slavery of love, than himonos. The way of life that himono leads is still unacceptable which, I think, has a very subtle impact on himonos themselves. It’s just like a two-party fight, when one pushes the other, the other will certainly push back. “I don’t care about whatever they think of me. I’m just who I am. I feel good about it!” said “Yingzi”, or shadow, on Douban, a popular Chinese website. Soon more himonos from the same website followed up her comment expressing their sympathy.