One my girlfriend got married a year ago. Both of them work for the famous banks in a big city with the salary enough for their daily demand. Althought they are husband and wife, they still have a distince finance and share a fund for essential demand and their plan.

One of my girlfriends got married a year ago. She and her husband all work for famous banks in a big city .  As they work in banks , their salary is enough for their daily life , although they still have a long road to go in finance . Now , they share a fund for the prospective with each other .

What would you if you were in this case?

One of my girlfriends got married a year ago. Both of them She and her husband both work for the famous banks in a big city with the salaries enough sufficient for their daily demand. Although they are husband and wife, they still have a distince separate financial arrangement and just share a fund bank account for essential demand needs and their plans.

Since the husband took out a loan to help his family buy a new house in the city (they had lived in the countryside before), they ofter argued about his finance. He usually had no enough money for his expenses and asked her his wife for money. Because they were husband and wife, she helped him a lot, even gave him a large sum of money to help his family. But she did not give money to him in all cases.

One day, he argued with her about her help. He told her she was selfish and she did not know about his burden. She told him she knew his pressure but the reason why he had a burden like this was that he had taken a loan for his family and he hadn't discussed that loan with her before. She said that asked why he didn't ask his family help him to reduce the loan (His parents could help him but they did not). And finally last, she told him about the husband's duty with their family. She was pregnant and they would spend need a lot of money for their baby and their future.

As a result of that argument, they haven't lived together since in a house anymore. She came went back to her mother's house and he came went back to his family's house.

In this case, what do you think: Who is wrong? What would you do if you were the wife? (Of course the top priority is happiness for everybody in this case.)

P/s: I appreciate so much for your advice. I think you are outsiders, you will have more exactly ideas than they do. If you have more time, please correct any mistakes for me :D. Thank you so much and have a nice day everybody.

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