Good point of view :)

There's some proverb that says silence is gold. In other words, you don't need to tell the thuth to everyone. The thuth is hurts. I think, the most people more likes to hear a good things about themselves, even if it's not true. I'm sure that everyone's has a conscience, which is telling the truth. It doesn't mean that it is necessary to lie. But sometimes you need to silence. But also you can simply change a topic of conversation. That's why i don't speak with people alot, when they don't ask for it or don't need that. That's some kind of "unnecessary service". The russian calls it a "bear service", because the bear is awkward, clumsy and rude. ;) I'm sure, nobody likes that sort of things. When i need some advice - i go to a person and talk to him. And i want everyone treat me in this way just like i am. That's some kind of balance in a relationship. It's bad when you are dumb, and it's bad when you are can't shut your mouth in time and listen to others. Moreover, I came to a conclusion that careful listening and understanding of a person is more important than speaking. It's not always easy to tell about yourself. And telling the secrets about yourself is more bad and dangerous than good in novadays, because there will always be a slimy and dishonest people who is like to gossip and offend or use you. So i prefer to share the secrets with my closest relatives and friends. But I don't take offense to others. So telling the truth is not a weakness and not a strength. But it's also no wise. IMHO. I'm trying to understand and forgive the people more that telling them some kind of indefinite human truth.