Confession turns to be a Relationship issue
I have a guy friend who shares to me that his new girlfriend is not anymore a virgin. He was shocked when the girl told him. Now, my friend is confuse of what he must feel to that confession. I told my friend that if he really loves that girl he shouldn't have doubt his feelings for her 'cause that's really what the essence of love right?!.. I mean if you love someone you will accept him/her and love her/him unconditionally. But the sad part is that my friend told me that he felt cheated and at the same time his respect for his girlfriend lessen.
At the end of that sharing, I got angry to my friend and I ask him why should he give a damn to what his girlfriend done in the past when he's not really part of her past. Anyway what's done is done.
P.S.
I still feel angry with him although I understand his reason.
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Confession turns to be into a Relationship issue
I have a guy friend who shared to with me that his new girlfriend is not a virgin anymore. He was shocked when the girl told him. Now, my friend is confused of about what he must should feel to about that the confession.
I told my friend that if he really loves that girl, he shouldn't have doubt his feelings for her because that's really truly what the essence of love, right?! .. I mean, if you love someone you will should accept him/her and love her/him him/her unconditionally. But the sad part what's sad about the situation is that my friend told me that he felt cheated, and at the same time his respect for his girlfriend lessen he's lost respect for his girlfriend.
At the end of that sharing, After he shared this with me, I got angry to at my friend, and I asked him why he should give a damn as to what his girlfriend had done in the past when since he's not really part of her past. Anyway What's done is done.
P.S. I still feel angry with him, although I understand his reason feelings.
Good job! :-)
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whether one is a virgin or not is not the issue here but rather what are the expectations of both parties. if these expectations were expressed at the beginning of the relationship,maybe this problem would not have happened.
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I don't get why your friend makes it an issue. It's not important whether his girlfriend is virgin or not. What matters most is they both love each other. And they are both CLEAN (as what kamal said). Instead of ranting, he should have asked himself "Am i virgin?". If yes, then somehow I can understand why he's disappointed (but not enough reason to be mad). Otherwise, he's a fool wanting a virgin girlfriend where HE, HIMSELF is not.
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It depends if she has done it very recently or few years ago before they met. No one is patient these days. The most important thing is to be clean from sexual transmitted diseases.
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