Who is responsible for that?

I feel so sorry for her. I met her yesterday. She wore a nice T-shirt, blue jeans and nice sneakers. Her hair was mid-length, dyed and stylished. I didn't expected to see her in such a good condition. Her mother already had warned me about her appearance. Of course, I noticed a little bit of a swollen face and grey skin, like people who have drank and smoked a lot.  Of course, I noticed she wore jacket which is couple of sizes bigger than she needed.

She has 2 sisters almost the same age. One of them is a nurse practitioner. She is getting paid very good money, has 2 nice kids, has lunch and dinner in a restaurant daily, ((take a cleaner at least once a week for her house)?)  The ending of this sentence makes no sense to me, I'm not sure what you had meant when you wrote ... "take a cleaner at least once a week for her house."  The other sister is a very sucсessful in her family life.  She is a smart person. She has got an extremely talented kid. She looks amazing, takes care of her body, face and hair. She is really cool.
Why is she a totally different person? Why does she differ a lot from both of her sisters? She grew up in the same family, used to eat the same food and breathed the same air. But today she is a drug-addict, alcoholic and smoker. Her sisters don't even want to know her, they simply ignore her.  After 2 unsuccessful rehabilitations, only her mother still loves her and tries to accept her as she is.  On the
day I had met her, she was very nice to me, friendly, open-minded, sweet and polite. But at the same time, she sometimes used bad words and acted like a child.
Who is responsible for that?: Her parents, who have given her probably too much freedom and spoiled her in that way? The environment she was in? Who and what?
A newborn comes into this word pure and innocent...

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