First time to be called a ("a" is omitted) gay

Is Are there so many gay people in your country? When I talk to a man men on QQ they always say "are you a ("a" is omitted) gay?".

Notes:

- Since "gay" is an adjective, you can say "Are you gay?". To make it a noun, you could say "Are you homosexual?" or "Are there many gay people in your country?".

In the conversation that you posted here, the guy you were speaking with seemed to be confused by the fact that you had a picture of a woman as your profile picture. So, I guess he assumed you were female, and when he found out that you were male, he thought you might be gay.

Another reason why guys might assume you're gay is due to a cultural phenomenon which I'm guessing doesn't really exist in China. From my experience online, Western guys are often looking for girls to chat with. It's relatively rare that a guy is looking specifically for another guy to chat with, unless he is gay. The guy mentioned this to you in the chat, and it's sad but true :( If a girl feels more comfortable chatting with another girl, nobody thinks it to be strange, but for some reason if a guy feels more comfortable chatting with another guy, it's considered a bit weird. Unfortunately this sexist thinking has become the norm in the West, and I'm guessing it's because a lot of guys feel quite insecure about themselves but are too afraid to show it. To avoid confusion, perhaps changing your profile picture would help. Good luck!

First time to be call a gay

Is there so many gay in ur country? When i talk to a mam on QQ they always say "are you a gay"

First time to be called a gay

are there many gay people in you country? when I try to talk to a man on QQ, they always ask "are you gay?"

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There are places where gay people usually hangout but very few here in japan.