Beautiful Life

What is life? My life is in a mess now. Most of my workmates and friends told me that I should end the single life, but it is not the time for marry to my boyfriend. I am just waitting for the right time. Maybe it is normal thing to marry at this age, I just want to have the enough love. Sometimes people just want to marry,t hen they will find a boy or girl to marry, no matter they love each other or not. It's a big problem that when we have holidays, because our parents will arrange strangers for date. We call it "xiangqin"*(blind date) in China. That's because most of people don't have free time to get to know girls or boys. Their parents want to have a grandson, so the children marry very quickly and early.
I met my boyfriend in a party which was held by school in three years ago. When I graduated, I left him not only because of my job, but also because we were too young at that time. We want to  pursue the good quality life, but we were wrong. We didn't have the same goal of life, so it was too easy give up each other. We stayed together again in this year, and we found we love each other and he is the best for me. We want to make a family in the future. Although we were not in the same city, I never thought it is a big problem for us. No one will part us now.
Someone said they don't need love, if my partner can give me enough money and a big house, it's ok. They put the material life in the first. Maybe they are right. Everyone has a different life. I want to have a peaceful and happy life. I want to to be hand in hand when we are old. I feel happy when you are beside me. Happy and sad together.

[Good work.  I think people should marry when they feel ready, not when somebody else says so - even parents.  I come from a western society, though, so keep that in mind.]