Ellie: I used to have that difficulty also. I always looked for the "one thing" that would be my answer, that would "ground me" and make me feel complete. I will share with you what I learned. When I dropped one interest, I learned that I did not need to feel that I was abandoning it completely. In fact, I always returned to every interest sooner or later. I just needed to learn that some of us have a very Broad-Range of Interests, and each new thing had to be studied, and the previous things set down for a while. But also, I discovered that I had a certain attitude which made it difficult to stick with any effort. I did not think that there were many ways of doing a thing. If someone said that English or any language should be studied ONE WAY, I stupidly believed it, and rapidly lost interest. I learned eventually that there are many different ways of learning something and that it was important to understand many of these "ways". --Bruce