I agree. You have to be careful with anyone that you come in contact with. Many will use emotions as a way of keeping your spirit down. It is a form of control that they use either knowing or unknowingly. It is usually from those who are not very educated, and not at all well traveled. Many times they harbor bad feelings and experiences. They do not know how to express their inner feelings and being well with others. They rarely laugh, unless it is at someone's expense. I say to always look out for those individuals like this. There are people who live as though the world is full of evil, so watch out for evil ALL OF THE TIME. Then there are the people who enjoy life and trust that good overcomes evil. I chose the people who enjoy life side.

Some people can not maintain enthusiasm... This attitude "burns a lot of energy" and may eventually drive away those who are not highly motivated or used to this degree of social intensity XD. How does indifference feel? I know this well behavior well from both perspectives... sometimes people with weak characters, the socially inept, manipulators, and other social deviants XD join our friendship circle and cause havoc with our feelings. Loyalty "flies out the door " when they tire of a relationship (and leave) and we are left with an open wound in our pride and self esteem XD. So the truths(morals) of these matters are, that you need more social experience and you need to learn to deal with rejection at times... But the "I am a winner" is a "good shield" against indifference ... Just be sure to evaluate those around you while "bracing against" their rude behavior XD