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Who Can Help Her? She is one of my friends. Her name is Hong. She has a family, and runs her own shop in the city. Hong is pretty and not poor. But the truth is that she feels unhappy and she is a lonely person. Hong suffers from depression. But she is afraid to tell anyone. I have known her for a long time. Hong married a guy against the wishes of her family when she was very young. She loved her husband very much and was desperate to have a baby with him. When Hong was pregnant, her husband lived with another woman. At last she knew it. Hong was a very traditional woman and believed in love. In her mind, marriage meant one love one life. Her thought was pure like snow in the summer, cute but never practical. It seems that god was kidding her. Soon Hong got a same situation. Since she couldn’t forgive her husband, then divorced, took her son and left. Because of her son, Hong married again with a guy who never married, after she made him promise that he would never want to have his own kids. Several years later, Hong found her second husband trying to seduce her sister. Since then, she began to doubt about love. In China, all the lovers say: I want to live with and love you forever. What a touching oath! Now Hong doesn’t know what she should believe and who to trust. Her heart is totally broken. Hong can’t fall in love anymore, never be happy and laugh, talks less and less and hides herself all the time. I am so worried about her. I have no idea how to help her. Who can help her?

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Who Can Help Her?

She is one of my friends. Her name is Hong. She has a family, and runs her own shop in the city. Hong is pretty and not poor. But the truth is that she feels unhappy and she is a lonely person. Hong suffers from depression. But she is afraid to tell anyone. I have known her for a long time. Hong married a guy against the wishes of her family when she was very young. She loved her husband very much and was desperate to have a baby with him. When Hong was pregnant, her husband lived with another woman. At last she knew it. Hong was a very traditional woman and believed in love. In her mind, marriage meant one love one life. Her thought was pure like snow in the summer, cute but never practical. It seems that god was kidding her. Soon Hong got a same situation.
Since she couldn’t forgive her husband, then divorced, took her son and left. Because of her son, Hong married again with a guy who never married, after she made him promise that he would never want to have his own kids. Several years later, Hong found her second husband trying to seduce her sister. Since then, she began to doubt about love. In China, all the lovers say: I want to live with and love you forever. What a touching oath! Now Hong doesn’t know what she should believe and who to trust. Her heart is totally broken. Hong can’t fall in love anymore, never be happy and laugh, talks less and less and hides herself all the time. I am so worried about her. I have no idea how to help her. Who can help her?

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To Lena: Thanks, I will persuade her to watch that movie if I can. Indeed, she was not the only one who face with such situations. I know several people who live near me, their husbands cheats on them, but they don't know at all. Maybe they're luckier than Hong. If she didn't know all about those things, she would not get hurt like now.
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To Joel: Thanks for your suggestion. I know what you mean. In China, an old saying says: Look before you leap. That's what you're trying to say, I guess. Yes, especially about marriage. Her love was blind in her first marriage. And her second marriage was only for her son. Her decision about marriage was hasty. In fact, she should take it serious. The way you face life will be the way how life faces you. I think she deserves to know this. And I also hope she can learn from all those and keep on going!
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To 七秒钟的记忆: Thanks. Yes, only she can make the decision about what to do next and how to live. The past is past, what's done is done. There's no need to regret. The important thing for her is brave to face reality and think of a solution.
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Your friend is not the only one who faced with such situations. i just yesterday watched the movie Feast of Love (Robert Benton) 2007 and i found some deep answers regarding how to deal with life in general. Maybe if your friend see this movie she will find some hope and desire to live futher.

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