Parental Hopes and Personal Desires It is important that we obligate to our parents.They bring up us, give us a good environment to live and teach us some knowledge which we can't learn in the book. It is the parents that are the first teachers for their children. Sometimes, there are much distress for their parents, people thought. They can't do what they want to, owing to their parents dislike it or think that it is not good for them. However, people's minds are free and vast, they don't like to listen to their parents all the time. They feel worse and have much distress. How to do it? We'd better find a way which can make ourselves happy while pleasing our parents at the same time. I recommendate that we tell what to do to our parents, whether they agree or not.If they agree on us, we aren't worry to do it. If not, we should discuss to them and tell them the reason. I think that mostly parents can understand their children.