What are the steps not to fall in love? Hi dear partners!! After living a three years relationship with a guy I broke up because we couldn't agree about our thinking about God..(it's just like when a Christian cannot fall in love with a Muslim or something like that) it seems like we really were in love, but we couldn't be together..kinda crazy but I was strong and fell apart..the thing is that just in two months after..I got the new he has a new girlfriend..WTF!!?? how could he forget a three years relationship in two months?? how can that be possible if he used to call me all the time to make up?? it has been like 8 months from that fact..and I just realized that I don't want, ever in life, fall in love again..it's a waste of time..you give time, pure love, and everything you can (nobody ask you to do it I know it) but what if that person promise you love, promise you to never let you and he forgets you just in a couple of months?? Idk..maybe love exists..but not for me.. Oh..going back to the point..I'm looking for a person to teach me not to fall in love..not to feel anything for anyone..more than friendship..(the problem is I met a guy..everytime I see him it's like .. magic..he smiles to me and it's like everyone left but he and me..he works in a restaurant..and what I can see is that he's very polite with people, but never smiles with anyone..I ask myself if that means something? but I tell myself that he's just being like this with me because I was the only person who goes the restaurant and speaks to him in his mother tongue?? maybe that makes him wanna be my friend and that's all..but..OMG!! what if I'm just confused because my ex boyfriend is Asian too?? I'm out of my mind because of this..I've even being trying not to go there..but it's my mother's favourite restaurant..damn it!! So..what to do, not to feel anything for him..?? what to do not to like that beautiful smile?? (I've already tried not to see him when talking to him..but I feel so sad when knowing that he's looking at me waiting for a look back..waaaaa!!!!! Can you realize it?? I'm trying not to feel anything..but fighting with this damn thing that makes me just talk about him.. Guys..if my first love made me suffer..I don't wanna suffer again..isn't it logical to learn from mistakes?? when I loved and made everything for that person to feel loved..I realized it was not what I thought..my heart is hurt..and my brain want to protect him remembering me that love means pain afterall. Well, thanks for reading.