My life of love I am in trouble these days.the trouble due to the pressure of my parents.They are busy pressing me to find a girl as my wife because they think I'm so old. yup.I'm 26 years old,and never have a girl friend,because I have a shadow in my heart.I loved a girl to heart when I was in middle school but never let her know until I say"I love you " at the first year of university,but she refused me. then I'm be in shadow for a long term and lost my confirdence. Before graduated,I have a chance to escape the shadow,because I found I fall in love with another girl,but I gave up----she had a boy friend. After graduated,I put all my attending on working,I have a purpuse that earn more and more money in 5year for wedding,like buy a house ,a car and so on.But in fact it's just a pretext for why I don't find a girlfriend,Becasue I'm still in shadow. What can I do? How can I do? Really not sure.