Relationship. Problem solving. Problems in relationships are normal. In general, I'm happy with my relationship and will not loose it. But there appeared problems, that I do not have a clue how to solve, because I can't even start talking about them, my girlfriend gets angry. I won't write too much in this thread, so you probably will be confused or won't understand everything. An example of problems: 1) Asking questions me: *a lot of questions* she: *busy, knitting* - Do not ask me questions, it annoys me. me: - How do I show you then, that I'm interested about something? she: -You won't. I'll tell you what I feel like telling you. So I felt like I should blame and hate knitting because I won't feel like running home from my work, so I can sit silent and watch her knit and not ask any questions. For me it looks like if I started to play games in my free time and tell her not to bother me, which I don't do. One of the questions I asked was about her psychologist. In my country it's rare to go to psychologist, people mostly tell their problems to each other, to their friends, ect. My girlfriend represents a different culture and it's common for her not to tell me about her problems or not to talk about them, which gets me jealous. I don't care if she spends time with guys, it doesn't bother me at all, but I can't handle that there's a person that's allowed to know about things I don't. So those were the examples of my problems. There might be more, anyone could have them.. But.. The question is, how do I even start to resolve them if she doesn't want me to mention it, because she'll get angry, annoyed, won't want to talk to me for a while, ect. I would be sad if things kept going this way. P.S. She's a very nice person, I'm lucky I found her, if you don't think this way, it's probably because I wrote here only our problems, without mentioning good things.