Two sides of one thing

Imaging Imagine that there are two friends, one believes that he ne never not shouldn't ever force someone else to be always agree with him, and he usually don’t doesn't like to ask others to help as usually him; and another one believes that the true friendship is based on helping each other, he’ll ask helping as soon as he get trouble he'll ask for help as soon as he gets in trouble. Two These two friends respect each other mutually (也可以说“share a mutual respect.") and will give a each other a hand when the other side has difficulty one is having a hard time (也许你也会说"has difficulty."可是我喜欢用“is having a hard time."). To friendship, theThe first one focuses on being independent and the second are more care one cares more about being interdependent. The result is: that the second one fell because of the first one who is a little cold or selfish and that the first one fell because he/she was being used by the second one. There are is no right or wrong in here, it's just two sides of one thing situation.