making friend in italki.com When we are chatting with others, we have to find some topics to keep going after saying hello to each other. We make some base judgment in the process of chatting. In my viewpoint, once I think the people I chat is worthwhile for me to make friend, I will communicate with him or her frankly. I never add friend in the itaki.com at random, so that’s why I have so few people in my friend list. When I find that we are not fit to make friend, or the people totally have no willing to make friend with me, I will remove it out of my friend list. I follow the rule that I follow in the real world to make friend. Once we take each other as friend and are willing to chat with each other in a frankly way, we can benefit a lots from the friendship. We can chat with each other without too much barriers, which is the way I appreciate to communicate. So far, I just have a few of people as my friends in italik.com, but I never worried about that. More is not always the best. Less, that means you have more chance to make a depth comprehension with them, not matter in the characteristic, the culture, the religion, or the value of the world. I am grateful to the people who chat with me in a frank way. Owing to them, I know some custom in Islam. I know what is “ zakat” and “ mekkat”. I acquire some information of religion praying. And I would like to have some friends who are willing to tell me more about the religions, just like Buddhism, or Christianity. I want to say thank you for my friends in italki.com who teach me a lot not matter in the part of life or English learning. In China, every one could be took as teacher in the heart when we learn something from he. But via contacting with each other, I knew that not all the people like to be took as a teacher. I also learn some information about vegetarianism. I know there are many differences between me and the people from different countries. So usually, I will try my best to respect their value, their culture and their religion. I like to show the real me to people when I think that people is kind. I really try to build up a friendship with other from my heart. Of course, all of them should be built up base on trust. For me, making friend in the cyber world, is not only to know who he is, where he lives, say how do you do to each other when we meet, or learn some English new words from them, but also listening and comprehending. I just think, friendship is very sacred even in the cyber word.